When it comes to sexy lingerie many of us are at a disadvantage.  It seems like all lingerie was made just to look good on models, which only makes up like 1% of us. It’s even worse for those of us that wear women's plus sizes.  Has being considered plus size stopped us from revealing our sexy side? Although we may believe guys only find the girl on the cover sexy that is surprisingly untrue.  Guys love curves and most of all guys love confidence.  Guys know how self conscience girls are so when a woman takes charge and bares all it’s a major turn on.  It takes confidence to go against the norm of what society thinks is sexy.  Maybe it’s time to step out of the comfort zone and make your own heat during this cold season.  I know just the place for you to find an outfit that shows off those sexy curves, http://www.alwaysforme.com/lingerie.html and best of all there is a LINGERIE SALE. 

This New Year I really want to add bits and pieces to my wardrobe throughout the year.  When the prices are inexpensive it is easy to fill your closet.  At times the best way to get all the little articles of clothing that will give the last touch to your outfit is to shop on a budget.  One of my favorite new places to shop for plus size women's clothing is Walmart.  There is a great collection that Just My Size featured and the clothing is perfect for woman with curves.  I’m sure it is hard to believe that you could find a chic outfit at Walmart but it is true.  Another great way to shop on a budget is by shopping online.  Many times retailers will give an online discount.  You get the benefit of shopping in your PJs with a store that fits your budget and still get an extra discount.  With the styles always changing and the prices so low you’ll soon need to empty out your closet instead of filling it up.  Could we really ask for more? 

Check out alloy.com, igigi.com and faith21 on forever21.com. 

Having confidence can get us through some of life’s toughest moments.  As a plus woman you've probably spent time focused on your self-esteem and getting the confidence to overcome obstacles.  It isn’t easy wearing plus size clothing in a world fixated on the size two models that graze the runways and magazine pages. Every time I pick up a magazine it never fails that I end up feeling horrible about myself.  Every magazine is a constant reminder of what society says a woman should look like and that is never a plus size woman.  It wasn’t until last night that I actually got a confidence booster from a magazine.  The February issue of Town & Country is a special issue titled, “Wonder Women”.  The entire magazine if full of woman from all social aspects of life.  It wasn’t like every other magazine profiling woman by size and physical appearance.  After reading the magazine I was reminded that behind every exterior, no matter the size, is the life of a woman with the struggles, goals and demands of life just like every one of us.  So the next time I flip through a magazine and cringe with envy, I’m going to remember that behind that size two body is a real woman. 

As a teenager I always thought it was weird when girls cried about cramps and menstrual pains.  I could never relate to any of my friends because my menstruation was always a breeze.  Lasting only a few days I never had mood swings or pains making it hardly even noticeable.  It wasn’t until last month that I experience the intense pains of a menstrual cycle. Not only did it hurt to stand up but I couldn’t even get out of bed. To make things worse, I had no idea how to get rid of the pain. It was a dreadful and it lasted for what seemed like forever. Not knowing how to deal with the pain I called my sister crying because I knew she could help me through this situation.  I can’t guarantee that these tips will completely rid you of pain but it may help you cope with many menstrual pains. 

1. Drink plenty of fluids; because of the high loss of blood during your cycle staying hydrated is important.
2. A high intake of calcium, vitamin D and magnesium will help your muscles function properly, relieving cramps. 
3. Put heat on the areas with pain; try a spa, warm bath, heating pads and even a hot rag.
4. Exercises such as walking and yoga help stretch the muscles, also relieving cramps.
5. Fight the salty cravings to avoid bloating.
6. Lastly, wear comfortable plus size clothing that will give your abdomen room to breathe. 

With the advancements clothing women's plus sizes you would think that someone would come out with a great plus size bra.  As a plus size woman I know how hard it is to find a perfect bra.  Every time I have been measured for a bra I am always given a different size.  Could it be the extra curves on my body that is throwing things off?  A bra is a very important factor in a woman’s daily wardrobe. Without the support of a bra come pains and discomforts for many women.  It isn’t just the design of the bra that matters but the fit.  If you are wearing the wrong bra size you might as well be wearing nothing at all.  It is very important for women, especially women with large breast to wear a bra that supports the sufficiently.  I found an at home bra fitting that works great.  All you need is a mirror and soft tape measurement.  Since the girls at the mall can’t seem to get it right maybe it’s time you take matters into your own hands just make sure to follow the directions carefully. 

1. Measure under your breasts (a).

If the number you get is under 33" then add four or five inches to give yourself an EVEN number.

ex. if you measured 31, add 5 inches to make 36. This number gives you your band size.

2. Next measure above your breast but still under your arms (b).

You might have to include the flesh at the top of your breasts to keep the line horizontal.

3. Measure your full breast (c).
4. Subtract the under arm bust total from the full breast total (c-b) and you will have your cup size.

Wasn’t that easy? With that done just see where you fall in the list below to determine your cup size.

1" - A
2" - B
3" - C
4" - D
5" - E or DD
6" - F or DDD or EE
7" - G or FF or EEE